Friday, February 24, 2012

The Big and Bold decision

Adele won six Grammys at the just concluded event.
The beauty of that win is for everyone, especially plus-sized women.
There’s a reason why I started this blog. If you look at my pay-off it says: “the life and ambition of a plus-sized sweetheart.”
I am here to celebrate the plus-sized woman because I am one. So when I see a plus-sized sister succeed in a tough environment - an environment that clearly makes her feel uncomfortable because of its frequent request for her to lose weight, to stay a certain size, to find ‘beauty’ - it makes me glad.
Adele has suffered bad relationships, and only God knows what else especially in the skinny-obsessed America. But she triumphs eventually. And not just a drop of success but a sweeping achievement that would be hard to beat!
It brought tears to her eyes. My heart leapt for her!
What that tells you, my dear fellow plus-sized sweethearts is: nothing, and I repeat, nothing is beyond your reach. People may try to define what they think is good for you, but it is only you (and the God that you worship) that can truly position and make you shine beyond anyone’s imagination.
The world is a tough place to be; but we are all in it, and we must trudge on to find definition for ourselves.

That is the challenge.
And not matter what others are going through. It seems the plus-sized people have a harder chance at making it work.

Sigh!

But Adele success is a good booster for our ego.
No matter your sex – man or woman. Create the world you want for yourselves, because at the end of it, the laws of nature does not care what size you are.

And who says you are not beautiful? Stand in front of your mirror in all your glory and declare the beauty that you are. God does not create ugly. Appreciate who you are!
The weekend is here already. Celebrate your life.
Yay!

-          Adaora

9 comments:

  1. you took the words right out of my mind ADAORA i am very glad at what you are doing and so people like me key into it always. God bless u

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  2. very pretty blog and very real GOD bless both your size and talent. YOU are indeed the mounique of africa

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  3. Very impressive plus sized ladies @ successful.com

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  4. Wow I love this blog so much. Adaorah kudos to u. God bless you and extablish you with more talents we love you

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  5. This is lovely.....thanks dear 4 d inspiration.

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  6. adele's voice is so angelic and i have noticed that plus sized women are made with very good voices too.

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  7. dz blog really takes the cake,its a nice piece of work i am so glad you are doing well and source of encouragement to pple like us.

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  8. welldone miss pretty i saw you on the red carpet of i'll take my chances premier and you looked marvellous

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  9. My mom always says, 'the bigger you are, the bigger your success and achivements'!

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